Media Roundup - Coverage of Life After Divorce
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by David Ward
www.prweek.com
Because of the rising numbers of marriages
now ending in divorce, the press and consumer brands should pay more
attention to this growing audience.
By now the statistics are well known: half of
all marriages end in divorce, and the figure climbs to 60% for second
marriages.
But the ways those numbers impact the
traditional family could be a story the general interest press is
under-reporting.
"One in three Americans today lives in a
stepfamily, so you could argue it really should be in the media more,"
said Dawn Miller, who operates thestepfamilylife.com and writes a biweekly
syndicated column on blended families. "There is a lot of coverage out
there on parenting, but it would be great to see more coverage of
step-parenting because there's such a difference."
Sporadic Coverage
That's not to say that life after divorce is completely ignored by
mainstream reporters, especially legal and family writers.
"Custody and the changing nature of the family
is something that we have gotten some traction on, especially with regard
to prenuptial agreements," says Jonathan Dedmon of The Dilenschneider
Group, which represents the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. "As
people are getting married for the second and third time, they're
realizing that these agreements are important, especially when you have
sets of stepkids with different inheritance rights."
Diana Shepherd, editorial director of Divorce,
which publishes state-specific magazines in Florida, Texas, New York, New
Jersey, California and Illinois, says she receives calls from mainstream
reporters to comment on trends in divorce, remarriages and stepfamily
issues.
"The one problem I have with the
general-interest press is they focus too much on 'divorce from hell'
stories. I guess they sell, but conflict divorce is a really small
percentage of divorces."
Miller notes that some media outlets are
realizing their changing audience and adding more seasonal
news-you-can-use coverage aimed at blended families.
"I was in the New York Times over the holidays
in a technology column that focused on resources for dealing with some of
the things that come up over the holidays," she says. "There's a real
interest on the part of the media to want to help people sort out all
those issues because many parents sharing custody have these heavily
negotiated holidays where stepchildren spend all day with one parent on
Thanksgiving and the other parent on Christmas."
But during other parts of the year, coverage
can be somewhat sporadic, and Miller suggests one reason for that might be
that there are no advocacy groups aggressively pushing stepfamily issues
in the press.
Dedmon adds that a lack of hard statistics on
stepfamilies and custody issues might also contribute to the lack of
consistent coverage. "One of the challenges [we] face is with good data
from our standpoint," he says. "Because divorce is handled by the state
court systems, there aren't many good national studies on issues, such as
how often does the father get sole custody."
There are a handful of syndicated newspaper
and magazine columnists covering divorce and blended family issues, but,
in general, this is often a story without a dedicated journalistic beat.
"We sometimes deal with lifestyle editors,
and, if an interesting case comes up in a local court, you'll get the
legal editor," Dedmon says. "In our case, we also target the legal
publications, as well as the personal finance writers of major business
publications. The Personal Journal section of The Wall Street Journal
comes to us on issues, such as the use of the arbitration versus a court
proceeding to protect the privacy of records."
Interest from companies
Much like a decade ago, when major brands suddenly discovered the gay
community, Shepherd suggests that consumer product companies - and their
marketing and PR firms - might soon realize that they are leaving money on
the table by not reaching out to divorced people and stepfamilies.
"There are very few other times in your life
when as much money gets unleashed and as much spending takes place," she
says. "Decisions get made ranging from what credit card you'll have to
what gym you're going to join. And if there's kids going back and forth,
you'll need two sets of beds, two sets of bikes, two Nintendo machines. So
whether you want to or not, you're going to be spending money." |