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Stepcoupling: Creating & Sustaining a Strong Marriage in Today's Blended Family

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In "Stepcoupling: Creating and Sustaining a Strong Marriage in Today's Blended Family," Susan Wisdom and Jennifer Green focus on strengthening the bond between spouses after the newlywed reverie has worn off and they wake up after the honeymoon to find themselves in a stepfamily. They encourage newly-married couples to focus on their relationship and carve out couple time. They also urge couples to draw boundaries and find one-on-one time to spend with the kids. Real stepfamily situations are considered and discussed by the authors and provide practical advice to thorny situations. Unlike a lot of self-help books, the authors realize that one standard answer doesn't always work in every situation and they recommend a variety of options for some situations. Questions guide the reader to ponder his/her own situation but without forcing you to stop turning pages for too long.
 

Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts

Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts Workbook for Women Making Your Second Marriage a First Class Success The Second Wives Club: Secrets for Becoming Lovers for Life

 
 

Stepfamily Courtship. Make Three Right Re/Marriage Choices

Books You Can Use: Stepfamily Courtship. Reviewed by Dawn Miller
In “Stepfamily Courtship. Make Three Right Re/Marriage Choices,” stepfamily therapist Peter Gerlach helps courting couples considering leaping into stepfamily life explore the underlying issues that can sabotage their relationship. According to Gerlach, there are five re/marriage hazards facing stepfamilies: (1) co-parents mixes of psychological wounds, (2) blocked grief, (3) widespread unawareness, (4) neediness and romantic love idealism and (5) little practical and informed help available to support stepfamilies. Weighing in at 552 pages, this book can be intimidating to the reader seeking only light advice – yet it is packs quite a punch. It is loaded with information to consider and discuss with your spouse or potential spouse – Gerlach outlines assignments as “projects” for discussion – helping readers examine how they communicate with each other and the underlying expectations each carries into a marital relationship. However – the text is slow-going as one often stops to ponder various points –it is not a book for the non-persistent. The wounds that each of us carries that influence our choices and reactions to each other are also important to Gerlach. He focuses on helping people realize what truly motivates them. Many sections of the book relate to Gerlach’s website which offers more information, although the text layout can be clunky occasionally. The image that Gerlach paints of stepfamilies – is both sobering and joyous at the same time – helping people squarely and honestly face the stresses encountered when remarrying or marrying someone who is divorced Buy it here.
   

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The Remarriage Book: Master Common Stressors Together

Build a Co-Parenting Team: After Divorce or Remarriage

The Blended Family Sourcebook. A Guide to Negotiating Change

 

How to Marry a Divorced Man

Preparing to Marry Again The Five Love Languages The Blended Family: Achieving Peace and Harmony in the Christian Home

 
Before You Remarry Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life Devotions for the Blended Family: Living & Loving as a New Family The Second Time Around: Everything You Need to Know to Make Your Remarriage Happy
 
Healthy Divorce: For parents and children - an original clinically proven program for working through the 14 stages of separation, divorce and remarriage One Family, Two Family, New Family: Stories and Advice for Stepfamilies Money Advice for Your Successful Remarriage: Handling Delicate Financial Issues Intelligently and Lovingly Love Extravagantly: Making the Modern Marriage Work
 
Making a New Vow: A Christian's Guide to Remarrying After Divorce A New Marriage, a New Life: Making Your Second Marriage a Success Stepfamilies: Love Marriage and Parenting After the First Decade Divorce & Second Marriage: Facing the Challenge
 


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